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Community comes together to cover donations stolen from local restaurant

The $200 was for Outloud North Bay
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Lucie St John holds $175 donated Friday to Outloud North Bay at Between The Bun. Mackenzie Casalino Photo Mackenzie Casalino, Local Journalism Initiative Reporter

Lucie St. John is proud to live in North Bay. 

St. John, who manages Between The Bun in North Bay, says her patrons have donated more than $1,600 to Outloud North Bay since a donation box containing $200 was stolen a few days ago.

“I cried for 24 hours,” St John jokes, noting one young boy donated $50. 

“My heart just melted. He just said 'Here’s for your donation box.' I just bawled my eyes out . . . People just kept coming in with donations.” 

In total, more than $2,000 has been raised for Outloud North Bay through Tip Tuesdays. St. John says her staff wear T-shirts to promote the day and even donate their tips. 

As a queer person, St John says Outloud North Bay is a cause close to her heart. She wanted to help the organization, which helps create a safe space for LGBTQ2+ youth and allies. 

“I grew up as a queer kid, not being able to come out,” she explains. “I never had a safe space to go to. It took me until my 30s to come out… Kids benefit from a place like this.” 

St. John calls Outloud North Bay founder Seth Compton an inspiration. 

“[I chose to donate] because of Seth and his journey,” she says. “He’s fantastic . . . He showed me right away that he was so passionate about it. He put his heart into it.” 

Compton describes Outloud North Bay's space at 207 Ferguson St. as a place “that I’ve created for kids in my community where they can come be themselves, spend time with their families and other kids just like them.”

Compton, who is a transgender man, started his transition 15 months ago. He says if he had a safe space like Outloud years ago, his situation would have been different.

“I wasn't educated,” he admits. “I didn't have people that I could relate to.”

Compton says COVID-19 hasn't stopped Outloud North Bay from performing its role in the community.

Its hosted virtual coffee house over Zoom every Sunday. Participants use a password to get in and are not required to show their face to make it a safe place for everyone.

“So I pour myself a coffee and we talk about our week, what we are struggling with and things that we are doing to cope with being isolated,” Compton says. “I've had a lot of parents tune in saying ‘Hey, we are isolated. What do I do with my kids for this?' or 'How am I going to deal with that?’”

Outloud volunteer Tammy Barnes says Compton’s one-on-one talks never stopped during COVID-19, with kids and family members reaching out during the pandemic.

Compton estimates hundreds of people have reached out, including kids from across Canada, as well as from Australia, Brazil and the Philippines. Parents, he says, have taken the time during quarantine to educate themselves to better understand their kids. 

“A child who could escape from that bad home environment when they could go to school suddenly could not,” he says. “That wasn't available to them anymore. They were always in that bad environment.”

Barnes says tensions tended to escalate during social distancing and isolation.

Outloud was created as a learning environment for families and allies, as well offering a space to ask questions and learn from one another, says Compton. He also hosts educational workshops for parents. 

A membership is not required to be a part of Outloud and neither does being queer says, Compton.

While the space focuses on accepting all gender identities, Compton says the main focus is to treat people as human beings.

“I know there are a lot of people out there who fight for that label, but I think we should take a step back and say 'Let's just be who we are and try to support that.'”

Compton is working to register Outloud North Bay as a charity. In the meantime, has been using his own personal funds, as well as donations from local supporters such as Between The Bun, Terry’s Place, Hoagie’s Diner, St. Andrew’s United Church, North Bay Property Shop, The Studio North Bay, The Painted Lady and Uniquely Debbie.

Barnes says one of the silver linings of social distancing is that social media has become a great platform to reach out to potential donors, as well as to connect with more people looking for support.

- Mackenzie Casalino, Local Journalism Initiative, North Bay Nugget

About the Author: Mackenzie Casalino

Mackenzie Casalino is a Local Journalism Initiative reporter who works out of the North Bay Nugget. The LJI is funded by the government of Canada
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